Loss.

 

Loss.

So many people want to know, is there life after death? If there is, what type of life is it? Is there a heaven or a hell?

Death is the Tomorrow that awaits us all, the inevitable that none of us can escape.

But is that it? Is there anything more?

Someday you'll be just a corpse. They'll bury your body in the ground. Or burn your body and put your ashes in an urn. The big question is, Will I still BE after that? Will there still be a conscious ME somewhere? Is there really life after death?

In truth, we probably all hope there is something that comes after. Maybe in the smallest recesses of our minds, we are planning on it as a means to cope with the fear of death and/or the loss of a loved one.

Loss is a scary thing for anyone. When we experience loss it tends to be such an emotional burden on our souls. Even if we ‘expect it’, one can never fully prepare for the finality of it all. We always want one more day or one more moment with that individual. We have a longing to reunite with our late loved one.

What if society has conditioned us to feel that way? Many people say that death is only difficult for the living.  Whatever your beliefs are, we can all agree that we want answers to these questions. Why did we lose our loved one? Will we see them again? Think about that for a moment, and try to see it from a different perspective.

What if that person, that soul, was placed on Earth for a reason? And if so, what is the reason? Were they taken from us because they finished their job here and is it now their time to move on to the next phase of life? Or even, time to move to their next life? Is it now their time to guide us on OUR journey?

Okay, so you might not agree with all I’m saying, and I sure as hell don’t have all the answers, but I truly believe there’s more to life and it’s purpose than we see.

So, let me ask you this: how do YOU cope with loss?

Do you believe in ghosts? No, not the sheet-wearing, Casper look a likes. I mean, spirits.

Have you ever felt a "spirit"?

I believe I have.  In fact, I have particular spaces In my home where I feel that someone or something is "watching over me".

Is it all what you believe? There are so many "what ifs", and so many unanswered questions.

Have you ever been going through a difficult time or contemplated a tough decision and didn’t know what the right choice would be? Have you thought about something that would alter your life forever, and all of a sudden you are swayed towards one path over the other?  Well, I believe that’s your spirit guide.

If you feel like ‘it's a sign’, it is. Don’t ignore it. This is from your protectors, your loved ones.

Say Hello.

Let me share my experience: there will be times (many of them) when I get these feelings, usually in my car and I know I’m being watched over. This is probably because I've been known to be a crazy driver. I also feel very guided when I’m in my kitchen. I always feel something in my kitchen, specifically while I'm cooking or washing dishes.

Let me explain.

At these moments, there may be certain songs, colors, or even signs in my own children. I welcome these messages, and you can too.

Have you ever experienced this? Do you have a certain place or places where you feel like you’re  being visited? Do you know who it is?

Share your stories with me, I LOVE hearing other people's experiences!

For those of you that have been following me for a while, you know this but some don't. I've had the pleasure of knowing and loving two young and beautiful souls that were very near and dear to my heart, and some may say these individuals passed too soon.

Of course, selfishly, I would’ve rather them stay around longer too, but I truly believe they were both needed for a higher purpose.

Each of these individuals touched so many people's lives, in incredible ways, in the very short time they were with with us. These are my spirit guides. They visit me often, and for that, I am so grateful.

Ironically, i don’t talk about this much, but here I am writing a blog about it. At the moment, this is very hard for me: feeling these feelings.

I know I'm not alone and some of you can relate, but that doesn’t lessen the pain I still feel.

What helps me is to remember that whomever it is, they visit us for a reason, they left this earth for a reason, and although, in the moment it sucks to miss them and it's hard to understand "why", I know why. They are now guiding me through my life on this earth, they are my "Guardian Angels" and I am lucky to have them♡.

Loss is tough. It is really fucking tough. There is a void, of the physical being, and you so greatly want to share every waking moment with them, but the truth is, you still can.

They are still around.

When you miss your loved one who has passed, talk to them out loud, they will hear you!

I know it may sound crazy, but the more you talk to them, the more they will visit.

Whoever ‘they’ is to you, they want to help you finish, whatever it is YOU were ment to do in this crazy life!

I don’t know about you, but I need all they help I can get in this life and i am so grateful for what I have around me and for every soul that has crossed my path.

You are not reading this blog by chance, there is a reason behind this post, meant only for you. There is no such thing as a coincidence, just the signs we need from our guardians.

We are all here for a reason, make it count.  When I look back at those two that passed from the physical world, they sure did make their life count in such a short time.

Be your best and most authentic self . Live your life to the fullest! Be the happiest you! Be the Best YOU. Change your perspective.

Avoid saying to yourself “I lost a friend or a loved one”; instead, remind yourself “I GAINED a Guardian Angel” and that’s pretty fuckin cool!

Tell me your story... is someone near and dear trying to come through to you?